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b) bored
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Monday, September 06, 2004
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i've been thinking and asking one of those ethical questions since i was in the mood. i was thinking whether it was ethical to breakup a couple to get the girl. This doesn't necessarily mean that i'm thinking of committing that myself but just some thoughts running through my mind. You know, on one hand you have the saying 'do unto others as you would have others do unto you'. But what gughan said got me thinking. " Why don't you just wait? I mean, the way youth our age in Singapore get together and break up, it's no biggie. People get together and wham bam they break up at most 6 months to a year later, if not sooner. And it always happens on msn. And while you may wait and you may get the girl in the end, yours won't last as well because it's off the same nature as the previous relationship and you'll find yourself calling it quits months later... on msn "
Ok the last bit about msn was funny, but i suppose there IS some truth in that. I mean, we moved from whether it was ethical of not to break people up from the very nature of relationships in Singapore. Sad but true, most don't last at our age. So no point going all out. Gives you more time to appreciate your platonic friendships and life itself. I guess admitting that and not making a relationship a top priority helps me gain my confidence back.. somewhat. I mean we should all heck care man! Let's all just laze around. If anything happens it happens. Carpe diem and seize the day and opportunity but only if it comes around. If not, well laaaazzeee..... =0 )
"i still believe my feelings, but sometimes i feel too much" - the distance / evan and jaron
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